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Author: jameshill003 Subject: male masturbation
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posted on 04-24-2006 at 01:22 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Male masturbation

How often do you mastrubate?
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Another Poll

Women, have you ever let your husband watch you masturbate?

No, I think it's wrong to do it at all.
4% [ 16 ]

No, I have never masturbated at all.
3% [ 15 ]

No, I will only do that in private.
6% [ 24 ]

No, but I might some day.
22% [ 87 ]

Yes, but not to orgasm.
5% [ 21 ]

Once. Never again.
0% [ 2 ]

Once, might do it again.
8% [ 35 ]

Several times.
23% [ 90 ]

Several times a year.
6% [ 27 ]

Several times a month.
18% [ 73 ]

Voted : 267
Total Votes : 390

Here's a poll I came across from another site. 90 married women enjoy masturbating in front of their husbands. Guys are very visual and it is such a thrilling experience if you're wife is open to Masturbating for you, or 'performing' for you.
Every Man I know, finds this a HUGE turn-on. Plus it is really helpful to know how the women touches herself, whether fast/slow, etc, so the man can then recreate that for his wife. And if a women has never touched herself before and she doesn't know her likes/dislikes, how in the world will the man know what she likes?? The man is not a mind reader....This is why self stimulation is so important if women want to have an enjoyable sex life one day with their husband.

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posted on 04-25-2006 at 14:57 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
we all wank

we all wank i once used a loaf of bread lol but im apperently a comedian i told my freinds i did they wernt suprissed they just laughed you know it was fucking great lol so try it lol
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posted on 05-01-2006 at 11:28 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Riiight!!!!

It seems very unlikely that 41 adult men have never in their life touched themselves....For a man to never feel the a sexual urge to masturbate, would go against the instinctual nature of human beings. The people here either lie, or the ones visiting this site are sexless.
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posted on 05-01-2006 at 14:48 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
i never lie

i never lie so people exploit me so many people have made the list
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posted on 05-01-2006 at 22:24 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Re: Right!!!

quote:

The people here either lie, or the ones visiting this site are sexless.



.. or you are (internally) too sexy and over occupied with sexuality. Human nature requires love and passion, not forceful self esteem.
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posted on 05-02-2006 at 21:08 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Lying

I don't think there's a single guy on this planet that has not touched themsleves at least ONCE in theirl life time. If anyone say's otherwize they are either lying, or in self-denial and don't want to admit it. But I think most guys WANT other's to know they masturbate. It shows women they have a normal sex drive. It would be a turn-off to marry someone when you don't know if they're going to be a sexual person or not. Sometimes, Masturbating helps figure this out.

Also, the less you Masturbate, or use your sexual organs (intercourse) the less you desire sex. It's kind of like you're body shuts-down. This is why, the more sex people have, often the more sex they want...It increases the sex drive.

Masturbation is very natural and normal. Abstaining from Masturbation is a very unnatural, degradation of the soul! Refusing to Masturbate must make people's lives very empty and meaningless......
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posted on 05-03-2006 at 08:12 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
reverse

It seems you took my expressions and reversed them according to the unique color of your glasses. I really wonder why do you have such a persistent horse look? Anyway, it's better lose the saddle than the horse => do whatever you want but keep your virginity.. just keep in mind there is whole different world out there

Only one think you should be careful is not to die in a toilet..
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posted on 05-03-2006 at 17:00 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
ok

what the fuck do you mean explain please
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posted on 05-03-2006 at 22:34 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
.

I don't talk to idiots.
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posted on 05-05-2006 at 18:49 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
im no idiot

im no idiot just you go play games i dont do thats what gets you off fine you dont understand life i do you dont know the shit i have to deal with 24 7 so before you call me an idiot think about the kind of son of a bitch you are i asked cos i dont understand youre games you play them but i hope you for your sake stop thinking of what your saying a cheap one liner wont get rid of me ha ha your the royal family liars cheats frauds murders and fakes im the sex pistols raw honest and real your fantasy just hit reality so bassically fuck you asshole you are a stupid mother fucker good luck in life you need it
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posted on 05-05-2006 at 19:07 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Another example of Self-projection

'It seems you took my expressions and reversed them according to the unique color of your glasses. I really wonder why do you have such a persistent horse look? Anyway, it's better lose the saddle than the horse => do whatever you want but keep your virginity.. just keep in mind there is whole different world out there

Only one think you should be careful is not to die in a toilet..'

Yes, Gradboy, keep in mind, there is a WHOLE different world out there. This expression is perfect for you since you seem to condemn anyone who does not live exactly as you do! Again, you self-project.
And rather than quote abstract proverbs and obscure saying's, why don't you post some REAL evidence or proof that M is so horrible. Your posts are so void of anything truly scientic (that wasn't done in the 50's) and so full of biased, subjective opinions and flawed logic, it's really pathetic.

Please be aware that there is a whole other world of freedom in one's body and sexuality; an acceptance and embracing of ones god-given sexuality. Realize that not everyone embraces Masturbation with fear and foreboding that you do. This kind of attitude will only keep you locked in darkness.
Many people I know who Masturbate are very Mature, intelligent, emotionally healthy individuals.

You are Not gaining any friends on this website, so why don't you talk some place else?

I think you are causing real harm to people by being so negative and close-minded and thus, making people feel guilty toward their sexuality, which could cause problems for them in the future.

Like I've said on other places, there are people who Benefit from M, and by you telling them to shut-down their normal, instintual sex drive is detrimental. I say instictual, because it is automatic, and in some cases impossible to shut-down..Why do you think babies begin to Masturbate? It's as normal as breathing or learning to talk. It's society that binds people down and keeps them trapped in fear. Time to re-think the stigma of being sexual!!!
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posted on 05-08-2006 at 13:53 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
hello

this site is about opinions not making freinds
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posted on 05-17-2006 at 19:17 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
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I wonder why the 54 men who have NEVER felt a sexual urge in their entire life are not on here posting comments and debating...
Something is suscious about the poll results. All men, at some point in their life have masturbated. Either one person has voted again and again or there are a lot of liers on this site.
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posted on 05-20-2006 at 13:31 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
ALL men Masturbate(and most women)

I agree that this poll cannot possibly be accurate. Men have bodies where ejaculation is almost as normal as breathing- It just HAS to be done (and masturbation is the perfect method)

In no way would I even begin to suggest that masturbation is a substitute for the Spiritual and emotional connection that us not yet married folks will have in making love to our wives. In the meantime masturbation does seem to be a safe way to relieve the physical tension that builds up in a person whilst abstaining from having sex. when I say safe I mean that it doesn't have the consequences that comes with pre-marital, or extra marital sex.

I can only speak from personal experience, but after about six days without ejaculation I find that a pressure begins to build up in my testicles which actually becomes more and moe painful. this will last until about day twelve when I finally discharge naturally in my sleep. Are those of you who are against masturbation suggesting that I just have to grit my teeth and bear this pain.

In fact the only time I attempt to endure this pain is if I'm staying in someone elses house other than my own. One time when I was away from home sleeping at a friends house by day 10 the physical pain in my testiclal actually became unbearable- kind of like I'd been kicked in the balls earlier. I found myself masturbating in the shower where at least I could clean up after me. Of course once I have masturbated the physical pain goes away immediatlely and I must also admit that there is a release of sexual tension within my psyche as well. In fact, I feel healthier in the mind and body after ejaculation than the build-up of semen in the ducts which is bad for your health if not released, and has the potential to cause prostate cancer- which is well-known in the medical profession. It has been proven that couples who have a lot of sex or singles who ejaculate daily live longer and stay healthier emotionally and pysically then others. Both my doctor and sex therapist agreed with me when I wen't to talk with them and he gave me a pamplet on all the health benefits of frequent ejaculation. It's amazing all the emotional benefits as well- it produces a calmer, happier state of mind. (And only those people who masturbate could truly understand what I'm talking about.)
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posted on 05-20-2006 at 14:04 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Good comment Alex

Your comments Alex is exactly what I was hoping Gradboy would get through his head. Just because he subjectivly (by how he was raised, culture, religion whatever) feels negative toward masturbation, doesn't mean that other people (like yourself) don't benefit from Masturbation. You have a freedom in your body and you actually feel more positive emotionally and physically after masturbation. Gradboy, only presumes to think that everyone is despearate and lonely because they masturbate, which is simply NOT true. Most people who masturbate are well-adjusted, social, emotionally happy individuals.
Is someone who enjoys eating a Chocalate bar going to be terrible lonely afterwards and degrad their soul??? Just because masturbation is 'sexual' people like to tag a negative label onto it. Why do people view sex and sex ONLY as being some kind of battle that one has to fight? People weren't born with this attitude, but it has been socially learned.

If most males abstained from Masturbating, at least the ones who have normal, healthy sex drives, would probably be walking around a total emotional mess, since that tension HAS to be released somehow..and waiting weeks for a nocturnal emission is not always wize or healthy. I would find if a turn-on to know a guy I was dating or was about to marry masturbated. It would show me they have a healthy sex drive and are normal. If a man had never touched themselves it would make me wonder about their sex drive in general and what the future sex life might be like with that person. Most likely if a man has no sexual urges to Masturbate, i can only imagine how boring the sex life would be, if sex even happened once a month. And if a man feels aversion towards masturbation this aversion could easily follow into sex after marriage as well. What's to say that the negative mindset one has towards masturbation and the human body won't continue after marriage with intercourse and oral sex? It's hard to psychologically break the bonds that keep one sexually repressed, which is why so many people (women particularly) have messed up sex lives or do not enjoy sex. I know some women who refuse to have sex with their husbands (they have sex once a year) and other's who have never had an orgasm, because they've never discovered the wonders of self-pleasure. If you don't know how your clitoris works or what touches your body need to reach orgasm your husband sure WON'T know. Your guy is not a mind reader, so do your future spouse a favour, explore your body and then communicate what brings you pleasure. Open communication is the most important thing, especially since each women is unique and each body operates differently which the other spouse will not be able to 'guess at' unless you TELL them.
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posted on 05-20-2006 at 19:20 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
topic is just worthless

How many different cultures have you ever seen (and lived in)? You know only the things you read and see from the people all around you.

This topic is worthless to discuss with people who have prejudice. You are the king of your body; thus you are free to do whatever you want.

Let me change the topic:

melvaughn, would you marry someone like me; who has never performed M and at the same time has perfect health and sex drives?
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posted on 05-28-2006 at 10:47 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Actually....

Actually Gradboy, M is a very universal practice in most cultures. It's certain religious groups that hinder this, but then people are caught up in legalism not freedom. I fail to see how I'm being prejudice. If anything, you are being prejudice to all people who M, based on how you were raised.

If you believe that no one in your culture ever masturbates, you are very deceived. You have no idea what people do alone. You also obviously have no idea about all the perverted sex practices in some cultures, including incest that have been around for hundreds of years. Some cultures have sex rituals that take place in huts and other practices....I've studied cultures and sexuality, never has there been any mention of any 'culture' that does not M, except religious groups like Mormons, but then, they think it's evil to drink coffee, so go figure

Maybe you should view what MOST christians think is a turn-off and turn-on in regards to their wives Masturbating. Here's a poll, and judging from the results, most men find the thought of their wife masturbating either with them or alone, a huge TURN-ON.

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I agree with melvaughn

I fail to understand how someone who has never masturbated, never had sex, and never 'touched' themselves could possibly know what kind of sex-drive they will have once they are actually having sex. How can someone claim to have a high or normal sex drive when they don't masturbate or even have the urge to masturbate. Unless a man is having sex they cannot know what their frequency or desire will be like. They can only guess and if they've never felt an urge before....well, there's your first clue.

Masturbating is like hygiene. Someone wouldn't go months and never shower or wash their body would they? Masturbation, likewise, is taking care of yourself similar to keeping good hygiene. Masturbation=taking care of your body and your needs. Telling someone not to masturbate is like telling someone to starve themselves.

And I agree that M is universal. It's not like only people on one side of the country Masturbate and the rest abstain. Masturbation is an ingrain, instinctual, natural phenomenon. People are not only born with this desire (babies that touch themselves) but we're hardwired this way. Abstaining is unnatural and takes discipline which is demonstrated through the unnatural alteration of the mind and body.
What about the people who decide they never want to get married. Masturbation for them is their only relief other than 'sleeping around' with random people. People are not meant to be monk/nuns there whole life yet not everyone wants to follow the traditional lifestyle of marriage either. Rather M then get married just as an excuse to finally have sex. The benefits that come from Masturbation far exceed any negative ones (and the negative ones are usually myths anyway)

People like to equate M with addiction and lust. You can become addicted to watching T.V as well but we don't see people all riled up about that do we? Lust and M can also be completely seperate things as well and it's only some Christian groups that like to connect the two.

When you scratch your arm is that unnatural? When you sneeze is it unnatural? Or how about when a women gives herself a breast examination? I fail to see how Masturbation is any different. It's also the only way some women can orgasm. It's rare that women orgasm from married intercourse....if they did wives would be ALOT more sex crazed then what they are....This is why married couples who combine M along with intercourse or use a Vibrator while having sex (to stimulate) the clit is the only way some women can orgasm.
Also where are the 56 men on this site who have never M before, because I would like to talk to them....lol... If there really were 56 men who didn't masturbate (and it's obvious someone has just voted repeatedly) these men would have stopped to make at least ONE comment or give a justification on here. C'mon, you don't vote in a poll and then not leave any comments!!! Since no one has done so, I'm led to believe the poll is total bogus.
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very funny

Alex, Don't you just love it when people make claims to which they have no evidence or proof!? Masturbation in unhealthy, the earth is flat...etc, etc.

one last comment on this, if masturbation was unhealthy, i along with 97.857% of the male population would be dead already!!! woman would outnumber men 1 million to 1!!!
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Ever got rug burn on your weenus?

That's pretty tough to deal with, right there.
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I think I masturbate 5 to 6 times a day. Oh I am totally discrete! Nobody knows!
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'I think I masturbate 5 to 6 times a day. Oh I am totally discrete! Nobody knows! '


I wish I could cut back to that amount a day. I think, though, it would involve sawing my arms off.
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Show me....

Show me where it says that masturbation is an unhealthy habit... And Im not talking about what your bible thumpin mommy and daddy have taught you from your acult or your BS web blog. Im talking HARD SCIENTIFIC EVIDENCE that its bad for you.
EVERYTHING I have read about it clearly stated that it is a healthy normal occasion and they actually recommend doing it on a daily basis. That came straight out of MENS Health magazine. Theres mine now wheres yours???
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Bible and sex

I've studied the bible and there is NOTHING in the bible about masturbation being a sin. It's absolutly silent so don't associate the bible with hindering masturbation. It's gnostic/catholic doctrines that turn sexuality into a legaistic sin not true and genuine Christianty. The bible is full of sex. Read "Song of Songs" that details oral sex between married couples....Christians have NO excuse to think sex is dirty!!!! God created sex!
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no masturbating

I would just like to state that I don't think I have ever masturbated. I have definitely had urges, but thinking of how I would look actually masturbating has always struck me as absurd and so I never allowed myself to engage in masturbation.

It does seem odd.
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Yep, ever since I was little (don't know exactly the age) I couldn't resist the urge to ... be happy. It has become an obsession. At least I'm at peace with God that I don't fornicate physically. "What about spiritually?" ... one true Bible student would ask. Well, it seems I'm already being punished for that ...
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???

'The bible is full of sex. Read "Song of Songs" that details oral sex between married couples....'

Huh? Song of Songs is not about oral sex! It's about a man admiring his wife's/lover's body. Where in this book do we read, "I want to give you cunnilingus/I want to suck you off"???

Book-dive before diving in with unsubstantiated claims, especially where religion is concerned!
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Masterbate

I masterbate every time I can, My friends call me masterbater my closer friends call me masterbate and even closer call me the master of bating.

I dont leave my room ever In fact the only time ive ever stopped masterbating is to tell you bitches on this forum how often I masterbate.
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I do it whenever

I am very discreet about it but do at least once a day usuaully. Sometimes I try to see how long I can wait before doing it.
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hello !!!!

Hi everyone,
Thanks for sharing this unique information.. really very much informative..
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